![]() ![]() Indian culture is known for its philosophy of 'Vasudhaiva Kutumbakam (world is one family) and brotherhood. "I want to bring to the notice of the government and Parliament a very serious issue. She said, “Well, we are not yet married.Hindustan Times - your fastest source for breaking news! Read now. The guy said, “Well, I don’t have any struggles or pains or problems.” Whatever sufferings you go through, you can always share them with me.” So once the ring was slid on her finger, the young woman said to him, “You can lean on me to share your pains, your struggles. A young man and a young woman got engaged. Initially, you may be like that, but after some time, you think he or she needs you then you will start acting wantonly and, of course, ugliness will start in many different ways. If you always remember, “To fulfil my needs, I’m with you,” then you will conduct this responsibly. You need to understand to fulfil your needs, physical, psychological, emotional, social and various other needs, you are coming together. I’m not saying this or that is the way, but whichever way you do it, please conduct it responsibly, joyfully. How you arrange the marriage is your choice. How responsibly you exist – that is all there is. I said, “Whatever happens, whichever way it happens, it is for me either to make it a disaster or a success.” I knew this much.īecause who you marry, how you marry, which way it was arranged or by whom it was arranged is not important. So, neither God’s diktats nor the law is able to stop the breakups. But where such religions are practiced, there the divorce rate is highest. Well, many religions have fixed it that you cannot divorce, that it is completely wrong. But in most countries, there is a law: if you make a mistake, at least two years you must suffer before you can divorce. Within three months you will know what it really is. Within those ten people that they know in their life, you marry one guy or girl. ![]() If a young man or young woman wants to marry, who will they marry? Their contacts are very limited. ![]() You cannot find the best man or woman in the world because we do not know where they are! With the limited contacts that we have, we can arrange something that is reasonably good. ![]() It is best that it is arranged by responsible, sensible people, by those who are most concerned about your wellbeing, who have a larger reach. You may think so many things about it, but it is arranged by your emotion, your greed, or by someone. But sometimes you really hit it off with someone and it may work out – that is another matter.Įverything is an arrangement. Well, tomorrow morning you could realise you don’t want to have anything to do with her! When you are twenty, due to various compulsions or peer pressure, you may take decisions which will not last a lifetime. You may just like the way a girl is dressed and you want to get married today. When parents are the basis of organising the marriage, the success rate is a little better because they will think more long term. Well, people may say the divorce rate here is low due to the social stigma associated with divorce, but definitely how it is arranged is also an important factor. In Spain, the divorce rate is around sixty-five per cent Russia is at fifty-one per cent United States, forty-six per cent. Luxembourg, a small country which is held as one of the most economically prosperous and free societies, has a divorce rate of eighty-seven per cent. The success of something is in the result. ![]()
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